You probably do not truly understand the power of the words that you feed to yourself and to others. Our words not only control our lives, but they can control others as well. If you tell someone that he is ugly, what do you think happens? Before you told him how ugly he was, he was ok or even happy with himself. But after you said the words ” are you ugly”, his whole demeanor changed. How did you do that? You did it by the power of your words. The more you tell a person how stupid he is, the more he will start believing. He is not stupid because of something he did; he is stupid because of what you said, and kept saying. Through your constant speaking of how stupid he is, he believes you and now manifests stupidity.
You must begin learning today the words that will empower you and how to begin utilizing them so that they can benefit you in everything you do. Start speaking health and health will come. Start speaking wealth, and wealth will come. Start speaking with thankfulness.
Words are powerful. So take heed how you use them. Use them to bring blessings upon others and yourself.
Remember whatever you focus on you attract. If you continually worry about something in your life and you keep talking about it, you are going to experience it in your reality. People do not quite understand this; they continually talk about the lack of money, their achy joints or whatever else they focus their attention on. As they continue to talk about their situation; they will never change their current situation.
You can even use the power of words to become a much more positive person; Look in the mirror each morning, and see yourself as you wish to become. If you want to be more beautiful, tell yourself how good you look, and you will see how other people will start telling you that. Everyone likes to hear how other people feel about them. Telling someone they are wonderful, they are excellent at what they do or even a simple compliment on how they look is all it takes to give a miracle.
You can impact and control your life totally. You can use as well the power of words to stop your stress response or to reward yourself by creating a special moment for someone else.
A complete stranger is waiting for you to reach out your hand and make them feel special. Everyone desires the approval that you hold in your words.
A short story:
A group of frogs were travelling through the woods. By misfortune, two of them fell in a deep pit. All the other frogs gathered around the pit. When they saw how deep the pit was, they called out to the frogs that they were good as dead.
The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they will never be able to succeed in their efforts. Finally , one of the frogs took heed of what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He soon dropped dead. The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. But the frog kept trying, jumping even harder and finally made it out of the well.
When he got out, the other frogs said, “ did you not hear us?” the frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were actually encouraging him all the time.