So many things changed in relationships over the past years… Historical events and cultural trends helped to shape the relationships between husbands and wives during decades. Marital conflicts were usually handled within the home and kept private.
Nowadays, divorces are more and more often met. How to avoid a divorce? Keeping romance alive in a marriage is challenging and the responsibility of both the husband and wife. If either person neglects their romantic duties, the other person feels unappreciated and undesired. These feelings snowball and before you know it, your marriage is suffering. To avoid a marriage catastrophe, husbands and wives should look for ways to show their love on a daily basis. These can be small tokens of appreciation, but when there is appreciation and love, marriage is healthier and happier.
A marriage that lacks effective communication is likely to suffer. Keep in mind that your husband might try to avoid these conversations when you first try to speak with him. Allow him time to come around, and try different approaches to see if some work better at getting his feedback. Speak to him in a firm voice, but choose your words carefully so that he knows you’re trying to be polite, and caring.
I will give you a few tips, on how to make your relationship work, make it fun, and both enjoy your spending time together more interesting and loving.
Specific things you do and say can compel your husband/wife to fall in love with you all over again. Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause him/her to feel even more distant from you.
Start with a second honeymoon. A vacation always helps you both see the beauty of your relationship, and forgetting all the challenges and difficulties you’ve been through It helps you both recharge and refresh, and keep this state for a long period of time.
Make a habit to spend some quiet time with your partner:
Find some time to shower together.
Buy sets of matching pajamas and take turns to wear them together at the same time (this is really funny, and you both feel this).
Light up some candles.
Go to a concert together.
Bring her flowers for no reason. Surprise each other.
Watch Romantic Love movies together.
If you have children and you never feel as though you get a minute alone together arrange for someone to have the kids overnight. This is something that can really put the spark back into your relationship, so plan it well. Go on a dinner date, go to the movies to see a romantic film or just spend some quality time alone and the romance will follow.
Never forget that spontaneity is so romantic. Do some of those little things that you used to do like heading off for a spontaneous day out and your wife will love it. Sometimes you need to get a little fun back into a relationship in order to create more romance.