Is It a Woman’s World in a Man’s World?

Men and women are so intrinsically different that they literally live in different worlds, unable to understand each other’s perspectives fully. There is a male brain and a female brain, a male way of thinking and a female way.

Time and time again, we have all heard it before, the old saying, “It’s a man’s world.” But these days, you have to ask yourself the question, “Is it really still only a man’s world?” As the economy is evolving and technology is improving, so are the roles of women in the work force and the in business arena. Women are increasingly taking a more active role both on their careers and their finances.

Women are often less confident with their skills in making investments and achieving financial freedom. They seem to shy away from the “risk” of investing because they fear they will lose their money or become financially unstable.

 

 

Anyway a woman stays a woman in the end, because they are strong personalities, but need protection from men, they are strong in feelings, but can be easily hurt. Both men and women need their space in the world, need their private world. One of the biggest mistakes that wakes us up to the reality is the fact that a man who makes a lot of money is considered successful, even though he may be a lousy husband and father. He has little incentive to be something better. This happens in part because men were traditionally perceived as the breadwinners of the family. That’s why, this way, men have the power to say that they are the men and they can solve all the problems, but actually that doesn’t have to give them the power to destroy even their own families. Here comes the role of the woman, who has to keep safe her home, her family, her everything!

Men tend to be fixated on their work and view their work as their greatest mission in life; they have been told that their greatest mission is really to love their wife and children and be a good husband and father, but they usually find this injunction easy to ignore. Women usually take care of that, and they also suffer when feels this rejection.
Generally, men want respect and recognition, whether they are financially successful or not. If the woman treats a man like a king and thinks that he made the moon and set the sun in place, the man is not likely to stray very far from home. If not, he may well become an absent husband and father. This is true whether he is home or not.

You will never knock the door down to a man’s world, he will see to that. When you enter his world you are saying you care about what he cares about and what is of value to him is of value to you.

And to enter a woman’s world, you have to be careful with her, and give her the attention she needs. Women today want to be acknowledged, respected and recognized as the powerful force that we are!

As a woman, we see it all. Now that you see it, learn to appreciate who you are as a woman. Learn that without you there is no him. Learn that without you, there would be no family. But without Him there would be no You!

 

“There are 2 different worlds in one world.”

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